I remember in my 20s and 30s people were saying you have 1 life etc and it didn't quite land but now as Im much older and realise this you think, what little time you have left. That's what's sad about it. I guess, pessimistic. Optimists would think something different.
I totally get that - the concept of mortality or not being able to achieve/experience everything you want is impossible to grasp in your 20s… by the time you fully understand you’re half way through it!
Sometimes we feel the stories we're given to write, aren't the right ones for us. But the reason we're given them is because we're the only ones that can bring them to life. - Well done!
That sentiment rings so true - the stories we are given to write… I truly feel that I was given the story of my first novel to write. Thank you for reading!
You’ve summarised this feeling so eloquently - it reminds me of something I saw on social media a few months ago which I’m using as my mantra this year… ‘Create more than you consume.’
If you create frequently you're consciously putting yourself in flow state often.
Without a motivation to create we find ourselves drifting into consumer mode because the media we're routinely exposed to drives us to keep buying. Being a consistent creator is a great defense against this form of intrusion.
Your post deeply resonates with me on many levels.
1. I used to have a favorite quote that I’d often share, thinking I truly understood and applied it. Then, about two years ago, something shifted—I realized I had finally embodied it, understood it on a completely new level. And now? I can’t even remember what it was! Isn’t that funny? It feels like it’s no longer just in my mind—it’s part of me.
2. Today, Cummings’ quote really spoke to me. It’s Monday, I’m back at my desk, and I want to stay aligned with my spirit instead of letting my ego take the wheel. Sometimes, though, I catch myself feeling guilty—my husband works so hard, and I start overthinking… It’s his choice, his life, and I’m learning not to let those thoughts and emotions take over anymore. It’s a fresh new year, and I want to stay grounded in that energy.
3. I’m currently editing my book on spirituality in business and professional life, and I’m at a crossroads. Should I send it to a traditional publisher? Self-publish on Amazon? Or maybe break the mold entirely and find my own unique way? This last one is exciting and overwhelming, but feels right.
4. I noticed you’re Sikh—you’re actually the first person I’ve encountered with this spiritual path. I’ve practiced kundalini yoga (in a Western approach) for years, and chanting mantras has become an essential part of my routine. It truly centers me and brings me peace.
5. And finally, what you said about your spiritual journeys and the decades really hit home. I’ll turn 50 this year, with my son reaching 18, and I feel like I’m in the exact same space as you.
Thank you for sharing all these wonderful thoughts - it makes me so happy to know that my words spoke to your heart. It sounds like you are at an exciting stage with your book and I know the answer of what your next step will reveal itself to you at the right time.
I think we are in very similar spaces in our lives and I'm so pleased we've connected here - thank you universe! I'm sure the kundalini will help with the overthinking!
What a beautifully written article Simi. I really enjoyed it, and I loved reading about your journey of writing your book. I have no doubt that you will find a literary agent.
I also love how you talked about living life on autopilot. I think so many mothers like us fall into the trap of taking everyday as it comes. We forget our aspirations, in the trenches of motherhood.
I'm so glad that you took the leap and wrote your novel. Congratulations. 🎉
Thank you for reading and your support. I agree, we fall in autopilot and it takes a huge amount of self-motivation to come out of it... which is in short supply when you are exhausted!
A quote that motivates me to write is from Stephen King. I forget the specific words but he essentially describes writing as being telepathic.. an image and feeling travels from the writer's mind, to scribbles on a page, to the mind of the reader who is often in a totally different time and place. Pure magic!
Thankyou for sharing this. It’s the inspiration I needed today ✨
Thank you so much for reading Emma - I’m so pleased that my words found you and lifted you when you needed them most.
Are you on a writer journey too?
Soooo true!!!!!!!!! makes me sad.
Thank you so much for reading - do you mind sharing which part made you feel that way?
I remember in my 20s and 30s people were saying you have 1 life etc and it didn't quite land but now as Im much older and realise this you think, what little time you have left. That's what's sad about it. I guess, pessimistic. Optimists would think something different.
I totally get that - the concept of mortality or not being able to achieve/experience everything you want is impossible to grasp in your 20s… by the time you fully understand you’re half way through it!
Wow this was very moving. Paying attention and following those aha moments are life changing.
Thank you so much for reading Alana - it means so much to know that other people connect with my journey!
This is called pure and authentic storytelling. I loved it.
Good luck with your book!
Thank you - that’s so kind! I really appreciate that you saw my truth shining through in this piece - it’s hard to be vulnerable!
Sometimes we feel the stories we're given to write, aren't the right ones for us. But the reason we're given them is because we're the only ones that can bring them to life. - Well done!
That sentiment rings so true - the stories we are given to write… I truly feel that I was given the story of my first novel to write. Thank you for reading!
This resonates deeply.
There is an invisible ear happening to turn into something else.
If we don't acknowledge this and develop self certainty we are invaded by the consciousness of others.
And we don't even know it.
Though we always feel the presence of an intruder in our headspace.
You’ve summarised this feeling so eloquently - it reminds me of something I saw on social media a few months ago which I’m using as my mantra this year… ‘Create more than you consume.’
I love this expression, Simi.
If you create frequently you're consciously putting yourself in flow state often.
Without a motivation to create we find ourselves drifting into consumer mode because the media we're routinely exposed to drives us to keep buying. Being a consistent creator is a great defense against this form of intrusion.
Consistency is the key!
Yes!🙌🏾
Your post deeply resonates with me on many levels.
1. I used to have a favorite quote that I’d often share, thinking I truly understood and applied it. Then, about two years ago, something shifted—I realized I had finally embodied it, understood it on a completely new level. And now? I can’t even remember what it was! Isn’t that funny? It feels like it’s no longer just in my mind—it’s part of me.
2. Today, Cummings’ quote really spoke to me. It’s Monday, I’m back at my desk, and I want to stay aligned with my spirit instead of letting my ego take the wheel. Sometimes, though, I catch myself feeling guilty—my husband works so hard, and I start overthinking… It’s his choice, his life, and I’m learning not to let those thoughts and emotions take over anymore. It’s a fresh new year, and I want to stay grounded in that energy.
3. I’m currently editing my book on spirituality in business and professional life, and I’m at a crossroads. Should I send it to a traditional publisher? Self-publish on Amazon? Or maybe break the mold entirely and find my own unique way? This last one is exciting and overwhelming, but feels right.
4. I noticed you’re Sikh—you’re actually the first person I’ve encountered with this spiritual path. I’ve practiced kundalini yoga (in a Western approach) for years, and chanting mantras has become an essential part of my routine. It truly centers me and brings me peace.
5. And finally, what you said about your spiritual journeys and the decades really hit home. I’ll turn 50 this year, with my son reaching 18, and I feel like I’m in the exact same space as you.
Thank you for sharing all these wonderful thoughts - it makes me so happy to know that my words spoke to your heart. It sounds like you are at an exciting stage with your book and I know the answer of what your next step will reveal itself to you at the right time.
I think we are in very similar spaces in our lives and I'm so pleased we've connected here - thank you universe! I'm sure the kundalini will help with the overthinking!
Oh yes kundalini is very helpful as well as the coaching I took 2 years ago to release « bad ego ».
What a beautifully written article Simi. I really enjoyed it, and I loved reading about your journey of writing your book. I have no doubt that you will find a literary agent.
I also love how you talked about living life on autopilot. I think so many mothers like us fall into the trap of taking everyday as it comes. We forget our aspirations, in the trenches of motherhood.
I'm so glad that you took the leap and wrote your novel. Congratulations. 🎉
Thank you for reading and your support. I agree, we fall in autopilot and it takes a huge amount of self-motivation to come out of it... which is in short supply when you are exhausted!
A quote that motivates me to write is from Stephen King. I forget the specific words but he essentially describes writing as being telepathic.. an image and feeling travels from the writer's mind, to scribbles on a page, to the mind of the reader who is often in a totally different time and place. Pure magic!
Thanks for sharing. This really captures that feeling of having a story and characters come to you - communicating as if through telepathy.
Your last line is perfect and I so agree! It's scary to take a risk but it'll be worth it in the end!
The most rewarding things in life are sometimes the things that scare us the most!